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This morning I stepped outside and leaned against the white railing on my back landing. The air was cool and a little damp, just on the edge of being cold. I could hear Route 15 in the distance—steady traffic, the hum of engines, and the faint echo of it all carried through the sound barriers. There was also a low background buzz that blended into the morning in a way you almost stop noticing.

But what I noticed first was a single blackbird.

It was sitting at the very top of a bare winter tree, right out in the open. No cover, no movement—just perched there, still and present. I stood there longer than I meant to, just watching it.

The tree itself still looked like winter. The branches were bare, worn in shades of brown and gray. There were small hints of green starting to show in the distance, signs that spring is on its way, but the branches haven’t quite caught up yet. It’s that in-between season where things are beginning to change, but not fully there yet.

Around the blackbird, other birds were active. Some were flying in pairs, like the cardinals I noticed nearby. Others moved together, part of the rhythm of the morning. But this one bird stayed alone, high up on that branch, not really bothered by any of it.

To me, it stood out as a kind of quiet courage.

I’ve recently come through a season of loss, and in many ways my grief feels similar to that morning air—fresh in its awareness, something I’m still learning to carry each day. It’s not always visible to others, but it’s present for me in the background as I move through life.

Watching that bird made me realize something. It didn’t seem concerned with being part of everything happening around it. It wasn’t hidden, and it wasn’t striving. It simply stayed where it was—present, still, and steady.

That moment reminded me that seasons don’t change all at once. Winter slowly gives way to spring. Growth begins quietly before it’s fully visible. And even in the middle of transition, life keeps moving forward.

Scripture says, “To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven” (Ecclesiastes 3:1). That really resonated with me this morning.

And, “The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it” (John 1:5).

Sometimes encouragement doesn’t come in big or obvious ways. Sometimes it comes in a quiet moment—just noticing something simple—reminding you that even in a season that feels unfinished, light is still coming, and life is still unfolding.

Even in grief, there is still movement forward. Even in stillness, there is purpose. And even in what feels bare, there is still something meaningful taking place.

Reflection:

What season are you in right now—and where might you notice quiet signs of light still present, even if they’re small?

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This evening, while drying dishes and putting things away in the kitchen, I found myself reflecting in a quiet, almost sacred way. There’s something about the simple act of cleaning that helps clear the mind, too. Each plate I dried felt like a thought I was processing—wiping it down, setting it aside, ready for what comes next.

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about happiness, contentment, and what those words actually mean in my life. What am I truly searching for? What is the goal now?

In this stillness, I sense God gently opening some truths to me.

After a recent conversation and a new understanding regarding a relationship that’s been central in my life, I felt something I didn’t expect: freedom. The weight of constantly questioning where I stand with someone is gone. And that shift—it’s opening something inside of me.

Now, I find myself wondering: What kind of job would be meaningful for me in this season? What type of life can I build—one that stands on its own, not dependent on the dynamics of that relationship? Who can I grow with? Could there be new friendships, new circles of connection, or new places where I can pour into others and also be poured into?

These thoughts don’t scare me—they feel like possibility. And they feel like faith.

“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

– Joshua 1:9

Even still, I have to say it: I love this person. Maybe that won’t make sense to everyone. Maybe it sounds naive. But for me, love isn’t just an emotion. It’s a decision. A commitment. A deeper kind of choice that remains through the hard seasons—through frustration, disappointment, even heartache.

I’ve learned that love doesn’t always look the same. It shifts, reshapes, grows, and sometimes contracts. People are either evolving or retreating. And that—that—is the heart of what we often promise when we say “for better or worse.”

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”

– 1 Peter 4:8

We choose love. That doesn’t mean staying in unsafe or unwise situations, but it means honoring love’s depth, complexity, and long-suffering nature. Real love can be both a sacrifice and a source of liberation. Choosing to love—even in release—can set us free. Sometimes letting go is an act of love.

Tonight, as I placed the last clean dish on the rack and wiped down the counter, I felt a quiet sense of peace settle over me. That’s all I really want in this season—peace. Security. And the ability to trust that God is leading, even when the road ahead is still forming.

To anyone else walking through separation, divorce, or difficulty in a relationship: you’re not alone. These seasons can feel like you’re standing still in the ruins of what used to be. But God meets us in the quiet aftermath and gently reminds us, “This is not the end of your story.”

You are strong, even when you feel broken. You are loved, even in the middle of loss. And you are being led—even when the map feels blank.

Keep going. Peace is not far from you—it may be closer than you think.

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This morning, I woke up to the sound of rain and distant sirens. The air was damp and chilly—one of those mornings that invites reflection. And so, I found myself thinking, not in a way that brought sadness, but in a way that helped me learn.

Lately, I’ve been revisiting my past, not to dwell on it, but to understand it—to recognize patterns, appreciate what served me well, and let go of what no longer fits. Today, my thoughts wandered to the many relationships I’ve experienced, and how they evolve over time. In the midst of that reflection, I was reminded of Jeremiah 31:3:

“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.”

God’s love is unwavering. It doesn’t depend on circumstances or the passage of time, and it offers a powerful reminder that love, when seen through His lens, isn’t confined by the past—it can evolve and still hold profound meaning.

I recalled one particularly memorable conversation from years ago. In that moment, when everything felt both fragile and full of possibility, the other person softly admitted, “I wish I had been more patient back then.” I remember nodding, feeling the weight of those words as if they were my own. That exchange wasn’t about rewriting history; it was about understanding it and learning from every shared regret and joy. We forgave not out of obligation, but because we chose to let those moments teach us how to move forward.

Protecting my peace isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Recently, when planning a meeting with someone from my past, I deliberately chose a neutral space where I could feel safe, free from the weight of old emotions. This morning, when I saw the rain, my instinct whispered, Maybe today isn’t the right day for this conversation. And rather than push ahead, I listened. Timing isn’t just about schedules—it’s about emotional readiness.

Love in its truest form isn’t about keeping score; it’s about choosing grace and allowing healing to take root. 1 Peter 4:8 reminds us, “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” In every relationship—be it with family, friends, or past partners—love has the power to mend, transform, and endure, even as circumstances change.

So today, instead of forcing an outcome, I’m sitting with these reflections. I don’t have all the answers, but I do know this: growth often comes from seeing things differently, and sometimes, love means letting go with grace. God’s love remains, as steady as the rain and as constant as the changing seasons of our lives.

I invite you to join me in this reflection. Have you ever had a conversation that reshaped your understanding of love? Is there a moment in your past that, in hindsight, taught you an unexpected lesson? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences as we journey together toward healing and growth.

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