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This morning I stepped outside and leaned against the white railing on my back landing. The air was cool and a little damp, just on the edge of being cold. I could hear Route 15 in the distance—steady traffic, the hum of engines, and the faint echo of it all carried through the sound barriers. There was also a low background buzz that blended into the morning in a way you almost stop noticing.

But what I noticed first was a single blackbird.

It was sitting at the very top of a bare winter tree, right out in the open. No cover, no movement—just perched there, still and present. I stood there longer than I meant to, just watching it.

The tree itself still looked like winter. The branches were bare, worn in shades of brown and gray. There were small hints of green starting to show in the distance, signs that spring is on its way, but the branches haven’t quite caught up yet. It’s that in-between season where things are beginning to change, but not fully there yet.

Around the blackbird, other birds were active. Some were flying in pairs, like the cardinals I noticed nearby. Others moved together, part of the rhythm of the morning. But this one bird stayed alone, high up on that branch, not really bothered by any of it.

To me, it stood out as a kind of quiet courage.

I’ve recently come through a season of loss, and in many ways my grief feels similar to that morning air—fresh in its awareness, something I’m still learning to carry each day. It’s not always visible to others, but it’s present for me in the background as I move through life.

Watching that bird made me realize something. It didn’t seem concerned with being part of everything happening around it. It wasn’t hidden, and it wasn’t striving. It simply stayed where it was—present, still, and steady.

That moment reminded me that seasons don’t change all at once. Winter slowly gives way to spring. Growth begins quietly before it’s fully visible. And even in the middle of transition, life keeps moving forward.

Scripture says, “To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven” (Ecclesiastes 3:1). That really resonated with me this morning.

And, “The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it” (John 1:5).

Sometimes encouragement doesn’t come in big or obvious ways. Sometimes it comes in a quiet moment—just noticing something simple—reminding you that even in a season that feels unfinished, light is still coming, and life is still unfolding.

Even in grief, there is still movement forward. Even in stillness, there is purpose. And even in what feels bare, there is still something meaningful taking place.

Reflection:

What season are you in right now—and where might you notice quiet signs of light still present, even if they’re small?

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This morning, I woke up to the sound of rain and distant sirens. The air was damp and chilly—one of those mornings that invites reflection. And so, I found myself thinking, not in a way that brought sadness, but in a way that helped me learn.

Lately, I’ve been revisiting my past, not to dwell on it, but to understand it—to recognize patterns, appreciate what served me well, and let go of what no longer fits. Today, my thoughts wandered to the many relationships I’ve experienced, and how they evolve over time. In the midst of that reflection, I was reminded of Jeremiah 31:3:

“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.”

God’s love is unwavering. It doesn’t depend on circumstances or the passage of time, and it offers a powerful reminder that love, when seen through His lens, isn’t confined by the past—it can evolve and still hold profound meaning.

I recalled one particularly memorable conversation from years ago. In that moment, when everything felt both fragile and full of possibility, the other person softly admitted, “I wish I had been more patient back then.” I remember nodding, feeling the weight of those words as if they were my own. That exchange wasn’t about rewriting history; it was about understanding it and learning from every shared regret and joy. We forgave not out of obligation, but because we chose to let those moments teach us how to move forward.

Protecting my peace isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Recently, when planning a meeting with someone from my past, I deliberately chose a neutral space where I could feel safe, free from the weight of old emotions. This morning, when I saw the rain, my instinct whispered, Maybe today isn’t the right day for this conversation. And rather than push ahead, I listened. Timing isn’t just about schedules—it’s about emotional readiness.

Love in its truest form isn’t about keeping score; it’s about choosing grace and allowing healing to take root. 1 Peter 4:8 reminds us, “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” In every relationship—be it with family, friends, or past partners—love has the power to mend, transform, and endure, even as circumstances change.

So today, instead of forcing an outcome, I’m sitting with these reflections. I don’t have all the answers, but I do know this: growth often comes from seeing things differently, and sometimes, love means letting go with grace. God’s love remains, as steady as the rain and as constant as the changing seasons of our lives.

I invite you to join me in this reflection. Have you ever had a conversation that reshaped your understanding of love? Is there a moment in your past that, in hindsight, taught you an unexpected lesson? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences as we journey together toward healing and growth.

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Motherly Advice

 

I have always taught my children, that for every action, good or bad there is a consequence.

 

My thought for the day:

 

It sucks to be on the receiving end of good advice. 🙂

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Live each day with purpose.

Choose your words carefully.

Do nothing with only yourself in mind.

Share your gifts.

Clean up after yourself.

Bandage accidental wounds.

Lend not one, but both of your hands.

Offer to carry someone else’s load so they can catch their breath.

Speak the truth gently.

Expose contempt with love.

Be kind to yourself.

Be willing to forgive the forgivable, and then forget.

Nourish your spirit, not just your body.

Be a good steward of friendship.

Don’t harbor anger.

Put trash in its rightful place.

Live each moment with honor.

Count your blessings.

Act with pure intention.

Pray for you enemies.

And lastly……

 

Make peace before you close your eyes at night, you might not get another tomorrow.

 

 

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Choices

 

 

Focus

Achieve 

 

Let Go

Receive peace

 

Hold Tight

Invite misery

 

Play dodge with past

Die

 

Live in the present

Grow

 

Look to the Future

Hope

 

Is it important?

Maybe not, maybe so.

 

Seek growth

Flourish

 

Remain still

Restrict the mind

 

Positive

Negates negative

 

Hate

Surrenders  power

 

Grudges

Take energy

 

Forgiveness

Set us free

 

 

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What Is

I was wrong but,

I wasn’t wrong.

 

I was right but,

I wasn’t right.

 

Gut feelings rarely are wrong,

Neither are street smarts.

 

I have a rough edge,

Certainly not refined.

 

Lack of formal education only means

That I haven’t been trained.

 

I may be unpolished but

There is still a gem underneath.

 

Sometimes it is better to 

Hold some secrets deep.

 

You either know or,

You don’t.

 

You either get it or

You don’t.

 

Authentic means to be real, genuine,

In it’s original state, left untouched

 

I am authentically myself.

 

A raw uncut diamond is rough,

Its value though depends on its luster.

 

I am raw, in my original state,

Neither cut nor polished to conform.

 

Natural beauty vs fabricated,

What are you in the market for?

 

It’s all in what you heart desires

Mine desires just what is.

 

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Who Am I?

Who am I ?

 

I am my mother’s daughter

And my father’s too.

 

I am mother to 

My children

 

I am Gramma to 

My childrens’ children.

 

I am His wife,

And His little sister.

 

I am Her BFF

Since grammar school.

 

I’m a little girl

Who stills needs encouragement.

 

A grown woman

Who is just now learning.

 

I am the hope and dreams of 

My grandmother.

 

I am the girl who’s name

You can’t remember, and never forget.

 

I am the girl who never

Stopped believing in fairy tale endings.

 

I am a woman who

Possess amazing strength.

 

The one who has carried

More than most can lift.

 

I am the one who sat with the homeless

And called them my friends.

 

I am the person who prayed for you,

When you didn’t even ask.

 

I am the one who stayed,

When everyone else ran.

 

I am miracle

With God given breath.

 

I am exactly as He intended 

Me to be.

 

Humanly imperfect,

Heavenly devine.

 

I am the stroke of my

Fathers’ brush…

 

There are no mistakes

In art!

 

 

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He Makes Me Strong

When on I am set upon my knees,

Weak and vulnerable, I am at my strongest.

 

When the human power I was born with

Fails me, it is then I am at my strongest.

 

When I am pained with a broken heart

Or judged for heartless acts, I am at my strongest.

 

My strength is not born of my own will

Nor it is given as a prize.

 

When I humble myself before God,

And surrender the will of my desires, 

I am the strongest I have ever been.

 

I am not strong in body or mind,

It is in my spirit where my strength exists.

 

He strengthens with love,

Promises to walk with me,

And never abandon me

 

When I am at my weakest, 

He guides and encourages me,

Because He knows I am unable to do it alone.

 

His power, His strength

They become mine.

Not because I have earned them but,

Because I have placed faith in Him.

 

Yes, it is true that today, 

I stand as a tall aged oak.

Able to withstand the aches of my heart.

 

He is here, with me.

He resides in my heart,

His power, His strength

Give me the power to move on.

 

 

II Corinthians 12:9-10

 

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

 

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Breaking It Down

Waking from sleep one should feel refreshed.

I don’t

My mind, body and spirit  feel heavy with burden.

I am tired.

Pulverized into fine dust, lying in a pile that is set upon the ground.

I am without limbs.

Minus the extremities that give weight its balance.

Existing motionless.

I need a mold and a bounding agent, anything to hold me tight.

Direction, purpose, a cause.

My heart lies beating off to the side, the center of life survives.

There is hope.

Start at the center, work from the inside out.

Continue.

The rhythm, the pang, they talk to me.

Move ahead.

I am here because He, the Almighty willed it to be.

My will or His?

Where do I start? What tools do I use?

Be mindful.

I am forever a work in progress.

Under construction.

If I had one wish and could dare to ask at all.

It’s simple.

My wish would be just pray for me.

 

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